The 2 BIG Things ALL Women Want In Bed (And How You Can Deliver)

Make her sexual dreams come true.
Sexual satisfaction is constantly addressed by magazines and sex columns in an attempt to answer the elusive question, "What do women want in bed?" So what does your woman really want in bed? Besides deep intimacyromance, and maybe an exciting new position to try? What she truly desires is a connection with you — her man. You're probably wondering how to achieve that, so here's a simple guide to doing just that — what women want!
Step 1: Be Confident
When a woman is quiet or seems dissatisfied, a man often looks to himself, wondering if he's lacking technique or not doing enough to please his partner. A man may expect to hear those moans of passion and see his woman lose herself. If this level of intensity is missing, he may wonder, what's wrong?
The truth about what women want in bed lies less in technique and even more so in the attitude. She craves your confidence.
A woman doesn't expect a man to read her mind, but rather maintain a sense of curiosity when it comes to the details of her body and eager to explore it. She wants a take-charge kind of guy, who's neither shy nor timid about his need to completely ravage every bit of her.
As sex educators, we teach women the very same thing. We encourage women to take charge of their sex lives by communicating their wants and needs to their partners. Through communication, we remind them, they're much more likely to get their needs met. If a woman is more confident, the theory holds, he's likely to feed off of her confidence.
That said, women do want to take on the role of feminine vixen, true to their biology and the root carnal force. In the bedroom, all humans crave and need to remain true to their gender roles, whatever they may be. And these men in the movies are confident in their own sexuality and completely focused on the woman and the moment. These men are present and ready to devour every inch of her. 
Part 2: Don't Rush Things — Enjoy The Ride
In reality, many men are often focused on the end goal: orgasm. Rushing to get to the climax like they're in a race, they often forget to be present and in the moment. Most women will grow bored of this.
I'm not saying women don't like a quickie every now and then, but this approach will eventually kill the enjoyment of sex. And often, this betrays a lack of confidence in the man. A woman's intuition kicks in.
A woman wants to feel that she's in the hands of a stable, secure, present, and focused man — not a guy who's racing to the finish line. This kind of juvenile behavior leaves her feeling like less than a woman. There's also a lot of truth to all the hype about foreplay.
Foreplay has less to do with specific sex acts, like kissing or oral sex, and much more to do with romance. The key to good foreplay is to relish every second of the experience, to be a little selfish (yes, selfish) but also present in the moment — and not rushing through it.
True foreplay includes inhaling her scent and touching every part of her body with your hands and mouth. True foreplay includes kissing lips, necks, ears, and then some. It involves undressing her, slowly enough, but not too slow, with just the right amount of force.
Foreplay includes touching parts of her body you don't normally touch, inner thighs, lower stomach — and excluding the vagina until the very last moment. Touching close — but not right away — adds an element of tease to the act too. Massaging the feet while kissing her, touching her legs and thighs with passionate squeezes — all the while being focused and present.
In the end, confidence is key, not just in the way a man carries himself, but also in the way he makes her feel — like she's in the hands of someone who knows what he wants, knows what he's doing and gives her the security she needs to completely surrender. Bringing this to the bedroom can unleash her inner vixen. If she feels safe and secure, she is more likely to let her wild side come out, too.

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If You Do These 10 Things You're Headed Toward Lasting Love (Yay!)

THIS is a one size fits all guide to building the right kind of relationship.
How many of us have learned how to build loving relationships? Where did we learn? At home? At school? There is an art and science to building strong relationships. These are indispensable tips, written with romantic relationships in mind, but with a little modification you can apply them to your friendships, family, and even work relationships.
1. Create a safe environment where you can trust and share openly without fear. 
Don't interrupt, even if you need to put your hand over your mouth to stop yourself. Learn to fight fairly. No name calling. Don't make threats. Apologize when you know you should. If you're too angry to really listen, stop! Go into another room, take space for yourself, breathe, and calm down.
Remember: your partner is not the enemy.
2. Separate the facts from the feelings.
What beliefs and feelings get triggered in you during conflicts? Ask yourself: Is there something from my past that is influencing how I'm seeing the situation now? The critical question you want to ask: Is this about him or her, or is it really about me? What's the real truth?
Once you're able to differentiate facts from feelings, you'll see your partner more clearly and be able to resolve conflicts from clarity. 
3. Connect with the different parts of yourself. 
Each of us is not a solo instrument. We're more like a choir or an orchestra with several voices. What is your mind saying? What is your heart saying? What is your body saying? What is your "gut" saying?
For example: My mind is saying "definitely leave her," but my heart says "I really love her."
Let these different voices or parts of you co-exist and speak to one another. In this way, you will find an answer that comes from your whole self. 
4. Develop compassion.
Practice observing yourself and your partner without judging. Part of you might judge, but you don't have to identify with it. Judging closes a door. The opposite of judging is compassion. When you are compassionate, you are open, connected, and more available to dialoguing respectfully with your partner. As you increasingly learn to see your partner compassionately, you will have more power to choose your response rather than just reacting.
5. Create a "we" that can house two "I's." 
The foundation for a thriving, growing, mutually supportive relationship is being separate, yet connected. In co-dependent relationships, each person sacrifices part of him or herself — compromising the relationship as a whole. When you are separate and connected, each individual "I" contributes to creatimg a "we" that is stronger than the sum of its parts. 
6. Partner, heal thyself. 
Don't expect your partner to fill your emotional holes, and don't try to fill theirs. Ultimately, each of us can only heal ourselves. Your partner, however, can support the journey as you work with yourself, and vice versa. In fact, living in a loving relationship is healing in and of itself.
7. Relish the differences between you. 
The differences between you and your partner are not negatives. You don't need a relationship with someone who shares all of your interests and views. We may sometimes fear that these differences are incompatibilities, but in fact, they're often what keeps a relationship exciting and full of good fire.
8. Ask questions.
All too often, we make up our own stories or interpretations about what our partners' behavior means. For example: "She doesn't want to cuddle; she must not really love me anymore." We can never err on the side of asking too many questions, and then listen to the answers from your whole self — heart, gut, mind and body. Equally important is to hear what's not being said — the facts and feeling that you sense might be unspoken. 
9. Make time for your relationship. No matter who you are or what your work is, you need to nurture your relationship. Make sure you schedule time for the well-being of your relationship. That includes making "play dates" and also taking downtime together. Frequently create a sacred space together by shutting off all things technological and digital. Like a garden, the more you tend to your relationship, the more it will grow. 
10. Say the "hard things" from love. 
Become aware of the hard things that you're not talking about. How does that feel? No matter what you're feeling in a situation, channel the energy of your emotions so that you say what you need to say in a constructive manner.
There you have it. Be kind to yourselves. Remember: change takes time and every step counts.

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Barack Obama, Aliko Dangote Are The Only Black Men In Forbes 100 Most Powerful People

Halima Dangote and Aliko Dangote

Forbes 100 most powerful 2015

Forbes has released the 2015 list for its annual Most Powerful People In The World series.
Forbes 100 most powerful 2015
Forbes 100 most powerful 2015: Aliko Dangote
The richest man in Africa, Aliko Dangote, was the only Nigerian on the list, ranked at number 71.
Aliko Dangote was the only black man named in the list, alongside USA president Barack Obama.
The top 10 was filled with Heads of State, including Russia’s Vladimir Putin at number 1, Germany’sAngela Merkel at 2, and Barack Obama at 3rd.
The youngest people on the list were Facebook CEO, 31-year old Mark Zuckerberg, who was ranked 19th, and 32-year old leader of North Korea, Kim Jong-Un who was ranked 46th.
You can read the full list here.

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The 10 Hottest Artists In Nigeria 2015 | #TheLIST

All week, we’ve been counting down the hottest acts in Nigerian music at the moment; those with the hottest songs, endorsements, tours, record deals, mega moves on the local and international scene, the award winners, and in general, the people we’ve listened and danced to for the past 12 months.
This is arguably the most competitive list yet, particularly the Top 3. It really could’ve gone either way.
Taking all the factors mentioned above into consideration, here’s #TheLIST as compiled by the Bata Boiz Media Team!
The 10 Hottest Artists In Nigeria 2015 | #TheLIST
The 10 Hottest Artists In Nigeria 2015 | #TheLIST

1. Olamide

2. Wizkid

3. Davido

4. Lil Kesh

5. Patoranking

6. Yemi Alade

7. Kiss Daniel

8. Korede Bello

9. HarrySong

10. Skales

Worthy Mentions

Cynthia Morgan has released some really good songs and videos this year. She’s also been in the news for 1 or 2 controversial reasons. It’s been a good year for the Northside Inc. Dancehall act.
Seyi Shay‘s latest song and video “Right Now” is doing pretty well on the airwaves. She also got herself an international recording contract with UK-based imprint, Island Records.
The Mavin next-rated Reekado Banks act has been on over 25 songs in the last 12-18 months, with songs like Katapot, Sugarbaby and Corner becoming fan favourites.
A year from now, Wande Coal will surely be on the main list. His new album #Wanted just dropped but it’s obviously too early for that to come into the equation. That said, Wande did enough on “Ashimapeyin“, Patoranking’s “My Woman My Everything“, and Flavour’s “Wake Up (Hololo)” to merit a notable mention, at least.
5. Tekno
Duro” is one of the hottest songs out at the moment. Thanks to the talents of Triple MG act Tekno and, of course, Dj Coublon. Hopefully, ultra-talented singer, dancer and producer will do so much more and finally make the jump we expect in 2016!

Do you agree with “@TheList”? If yes, yay! If your answer is “No”, please share your thoughts, and let us know The 10 Hottest Artists In Nigeria 2015 in your opinion. ��

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New AUDIO Dowloand & Listen | Davido x Olamide – The Money (prod. KidDominant)

PREMIERE: Davido x Olamide - The Money (prod. KidDominant)
PREMIERE: Davido x Olamide – The Money (prod. KidDominant)
The collaboration billed as the “Baddest vs Baddo” is finally here!
About a week ago, we brought you guys B-T-S photos from the Sesan-directed video shoot for an unreleased single “The Money” by Davido and Olamide. The song, produced by Kiddominant, is off Davido‘s sophomore album – BADDEST – which is now scheduled for release sometime in 2016.
To keep the O.B.O momentum going, HKN decided to hit us with this monster collaboration by two of the 3 hottest artists in Nigeria (according to #TheList).
Check on it below.
Official video drops soon!

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7 Things Every Woman Does Before Having Sex

Take away the spontaneous sex that happens once in a while and are mostly far between, women tend to have a lot of pre-sex rituals they undergo to prime their minds and bodies up for lovemaking. The spontaneity that comes with ripping off her clothes with passion and zeal is one everyone wants to experience without being bothered about certain things but it doesn’t always happen. Women oftentimes enjoy doing certain things that have become norms before sex which a lot of them would fail to admit to you.
Dress Up In A Sexy Lingerie They Hardly Ever Use
Women tend to have that one sexy lingerie they have hidden in their wardrobes which only comes out for the special sex occasion. Though it does come with the occasional struggle of the right time to put it on.
Shave Off The Pubic Hair
There’s a chance your woman wants to be well and cleanly shaved both under her armpits and down there. She definitely wants to prepare a smooth ground for you.
Clean And Tidy Up Her Room In A Hurry
Because there’s a little bit of spontaneity in the air, she might be in a hurry to make her room appear clean and tidy. A cursory look at her wardrobe might make you see the mess she quickly cleaned up. And of course, the bed would be left at its best.
Inspect Herself Down There
She surely know that her vulva and clitoris would look the same as it has always been but she still doesn’t want to be caught by surprise since you’d be going down there. She wants to be sure no unpleasant surprises come up.
Getting Her Lower Extremity Smelling Nice And Fresh
When you go down on her, you’d probably love her for smelling all nice and fresh. Thank her for prepping herself up for sex as she most likely used deodorants, sprays and douches to keep herself clean and fresh. She actually put in a bit of effort despite how sensitive those parts her to make you and of course, herself happy.
Prepare a Sex Playlist
Because a lot of women are romantic and they wouldn’t want their moans and groans to be heard by neighbours, she’d probably prepare a sexual playlist to increase the intensity of your make out.
Talk To Herself In Front Of The Mirror
Whether she’s peeing in the bathroom or brushing her teeth before you come over, she would stare at the mirror to reassure herself she’s doing the right thing.
Empty Her Bladder
She’d definitely want to get all the fluids in her bladder out in order to avoid any accidental squirting.
Check To Ensure Her Pills Are In Place
No matter how meticulous she is, if she’s having unprotected sex with you, she’d probably make sure that her pills are in place and up to date. Either she does this or she ensures she falls within the right time of her menstrual cycle.

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Football Papers : All The Latest Football News And Transfer Gossips This Morning (01/11/15)

Bayern Munich boss Pep Guardiola is in advanced talks with Manchester City about taking over from Manuel Pellegrini next season.
A defiant Jose Mourinho insisted after Chelsea’s 3-1 home defeat to Liverpool: “This team is together – and I’m not going anywhere.”
Manchester City and Manchester United are set to battle for the signature of Belgium’s latest young star, Anderlecht’s £30m-rated midfielder Youri Tielemans.
Manchester City will fight to keep hold of Elite Development Coach Patrick Vieira, who has been linked with a place on the Arsenal staff and the manager’s role with New York City.
Leicester will demand £15m for in-form striker Jamie Vardy, who has attracted interest from Tottenham, Liverpool, West Brom and Borussia Dortmund.
Sunderland are targeting £8m-rated Bordeaux midfield Wahbi Khazri.
Former Swindon boss Mark Cooper is among the names in the frame as League One strugglers Barnsley consider changing their manager.
Manchester United are planning to make another move for Real Madrid star Gareth Bale in January and United are also preparing a £40m bid for Felipe Anderson in an attempt to beat Bayern Munich to the signing of the Lazio star.
Paul Scholes has destroyed his chances of being part of ’92 reunion at Manchester United after his outspoken views on Louis van Gaal’s style of play wrecked any chances of a return.
West Ham want loan star Manuel Lanzini, 22, on a permanent basis.
Chelsea boss Jose Mourinho is facing the axe as owner Roman Abramovich prepares a £9.5m pay-off.
Tottenham are to offer Christian Eriksen a new contract that will keep the Danish star at White Hart Lane for the next four years.
Potential Aston Villa manager Remi Garde is looking to follow in the footsteps of his old boss Arsene Wenger at Arsenal.
Liverpool are facing a fight to keep hold of Jordan Rossiter as interest mounts in the 18-year-old midfielder.
Chelsea owner Roman Abramovich is willing to fire manager Jose Mourinho if results do not improve.
Franz Beckenbauer has been hit by new claims of corruption with the German legend, head of Germany’s 2006 World Cup organising committee, alleged to have been a key player in Malta cash ‘bribe’.
Jose Mourinho is likely to be given at least a month to turn Chelsea’s season around.
Jose Mourinho has a week to save his job after another humiliation.
Harry Kane is the shock name on Bayern Munich’s wanted list.
Everton and Swansea are ready to go head-to-head for Burnley defender Michael Keane.
Hatem Ben Afra wants to sign a permanent contract with a Premier League club in January.
Roy Hodgson will decide on Monday whether to bring Andy Carroll in from the cold amid an England striker crisis.

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Must See Top 12 Countries With The Most Beautiful Female Armies....How About Tanzanian???/ HahahaHAahaha

Normally soldiers are men but it doesn’t mean that there is no place for women anymore.
Who will refuse to work with a professional girl, meanwhile, as beautiful as Elena Deligioz?
Here are the top 12 countries that have the most beautiful female armies in the world.
12. Norwegian Army

Women in Norway started serving the Army in 1938 on every branches of military but it changes around 1947 where they can only serve in a civilian post after a political change happened.
In the middle of 1977 and 1984 they start expanding the role of the women in the military. In 1995, they allowed women to work in Norwegian submarine and as of today, at least one female is a commander of a submarine.
11. Canadian Army

During the First and Second World War, female Canadians are only limited in communications, driving heavy equipment, medical operations and other support activities.
But in 1965, they allow women to join in the three branches of armed forces but with a limited number of 5,000 women only. Finally in 1982, they allow Canadian women to participate and full integration in the Canadian Armed Forces.
10. British Army

They started serving the British Army in the early 1990’s but they are not allowed in any combat operations either in Army, Royal Marines and Royal Air Force Regiment.
9. Polish Army

In 1938, the government of Poland sorted out a law requiring military services for men and women who want to volunteers but limited in certain roles such as medics, anti-aircraft artillery and communications.
In 2004, they allow women to serve as professional personnel in the Polish Army. In 2007, 800 women are enlisted and 471 are officers.
Two Polish women achieved the rank of a Colonel and one reached the rank of the General.
8. Czech Republican Army

Back in the days, the government of Czech Republic doesn’t allow women to participate any military cause until the WWII is finished.
They started to work in Czech Army as medics, phone operators and anti-aircraft gun crews.
Nowadays, they turn out to be a fundamental element in Czech Army especially those individuals in the Air Force.
7. U.S. Army

Women start offering their services in the United States Army since 1775. They are taking care of the wounded and help in the activities inside the camp.
But in 20th century, everything has changed. They are given an essential role in different crucial operations.
As of 2012, more than 165,000 women are enlisted and 35,000 of them are serving as officers.
6. Ukraine Army

3% of women make up the the Armed Forces of Ukraine with a total of 18,000 and 7% of these are officers.
5. Swedish Army

It started in 1924, when the Swedish women are allowed in military forces but only voluntarily. In 1989, they are fully integrated in military services in every branches including combat.
Now a days, they make approximately 5% of the army.
4. Australian Army

They started serving the Australian army in 1899 but they are only limited in medical operations until the World War II.
In 1942, they roles has expanded in giving a support roles and allowing them as a crew in submarines.
In 2011, the Australian government allowed women to battle in frontlines.
3. Israel Army

Women in Israel are obligatory to serve in national service after they turn 18 which is why Israel Army are full of women.
In fact, 31% is the current figures according to IDF. As of now, one female officer in Israel army reached the Major General role.
2. Russian Army

10 percent of women make out the Russia’s military force with a total number of 115,000 to 160,000 and what more intriguing is that they held a beauty contest inside the military.
The most attractive female Russian soldier will be named as the Miss Russian Army which is why they took the second spot in our list.
1. Romanian Army

They may not be the strongest and the top military in the world but they have something that any army across the globe don’t have.
According to Sun Poll, the Eastern European nation leads the survey with a 17% of the total votes in the sexiest army recruits in the whole world.

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